see for yourself

It is through hard times that you can really see who are the ones who really care about you..friends who really treat you like a friend, among all the people you know

they will be there for you when you need help. they will still have that little bit of time for you eventhough they are busy themselves. all you need to do is just ask

they understand your condition, your problem. instead of blaming you, they tolerate and advice you to change. becos they are worried about you

they are willing to listen to what you want to say. they encourage you, and tell you what are the pratical things that you should do

and also..you can see those who just want a piece of you. the predators who just want a nice bite on you. only come to you because they find you useful. after getting what they want, they leave. just like that.
(sorry, my tolerance is proportional to the closeness of friendship between people. the closer we are, the more i will tolerate. which means, i wont have mercy for predators when they take me for granted, especially when they are just my hi-bye friends. i am not your free consultant)

"..you can only see things clearly with your heart. What is essential is invisible to the eye."
from the book, The Little Prince, by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

thats why sometimes i would rather just keep quiet. i think my heart can function much better when i am not using my mouth.

see. listen. feel. and think. rather than talk using the mouth.
thats how i live my life most of the time